Archive for July, 2012

2. The Right Kind of NFP Instruction: A Work of Evangelization

Monday, July 23rd, 2012

God Himself made woman in such a way that the frequent suckling of her baby at her breasts postpones the return of fertility.  Scientific research has demonstrated that frequency of suckling is the key to the normal postponement of fertility.  Mothers who breastfeed according to the Seven Standards of ecological breastfeeding (EBF) will experience, on average, 14 to 15 months of amenorrhea (the absence of periods) before their first postpartum menstruation.  These mothers will also provide the best nutrition with resultant better health for both baby and themselves; and they will save well over a thousand U. S. dollars with each baby—funds not spent on formula and baby foods.  Mothers also enjoy a number of health benefits.  (There are currently at least 21 recognized health benefits for breastfed babies and eight health benefits for breastfeeding mothers.)  It is God Himself who created this mutually health-enhancing mother-baby relationship, and God Himself created the side effect of natural baby spacing.  It is part of the New Evangelization to teach God’s personal causation of these beautiful natural realities.  Every engaged and married man & woman deserves to know this part of God’s creation.

God Himself made woman in such a way that pre-ovulation estrogen causes a healthy discharge of mucus from the cervix.  God Himself made woman in such a way that pre-ovulation estrogen also causes several physical changes in the cervix.  Both the mucus changes and the cervix changes can be detected and evaluated by informed women.  Every engaged and married woman deserves to know these aspects of God’s creation.

God Himself made woman in such a way that post-ovulation progesterone causes her basal (i.e., resting) temperature to rise enough that it can be readily noticed with accurate temperature taking and recording.  A sufficiently elevated temperature pattern provides a positive assurance that she is past ovulation.  The NFP husband can become involved in the process of fertility awareness through the simple act of giving the thermometer to his wife in the morning, taking it back after a minute or so, and recording the temperature on their chart.  Every engaged and married couple deserves to know this aspect of God’s creation.

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John F. Kippley
Battle-Scarred: Justice Can Be Elusive

1. The Right Kind of Natural Family Planning Instruction: A Work of Evangelization

Sunday, July 22nd, 2012

By John F. Kippley
(to be run in 7 sections daily during NFP Week)

The reason for the existence of NFP International is to provide the right kind of instruction in Natural Family Planning (NFP), something that is much more than “Catholic birth control.”  The right kind of instruction in NFP has to address the whole person.  Within the Catholic Church, the entire body of Catholic teaching on love, marriage and sexuality needs to be presented in the context of Christian discipleship.  The NFP course and the rest of the marriage preparation need to present Jesus as the reason for all teaching about love.  He is love incarnate, so it is a great omission to try to teach about love and marriage, including sexual love, without letting Jesus show us the way.

Some negative aspects
The right kind of NFP instruction is both negative and positive, and everyone has a human right to learn both.  There are serious problems with unnatural forms of birth control, and they need to be addressed.  Hormonal birth control (the Pill, injections, implants, and coated intrauterine devices) can have long-term harmful effects.  Everyone should learn that every form of hormonal birth control has the potential to cause an early abortion.  Every couple deserves to know that the Pill increases the risk of breast cancer.  They should also know that vasectomy is associated with an increased risk of prostate cancer.  Lastly, they should realize that the traditional barrier methods of birth control are by no means 100% effective.  The Catholic Church is truly being a friend of women and men alike when it teaches against contraception.  If this information does not help a couple to eschew all unnatural forms of birth control when they start their marriage, at least it may help them to discontinue these unhealthy and immoral practices in the future.

The positive aspects
The New Evangelization involves raising the consciousness of ordinary people about God’s personal interest in the things of nature as well as in specific doctrinal teaching.  The right kind of NFP course provides an excellent opportunity to teach and explain some important parts of God’s plan for us. The positive aspects of natural family planning are beautiful in themselves and even more attractive in comparison with the unnatural forms of birth control.

BOOK SALE:  30% off Kippley books in print at lulu through August 7.

John F. Kippley
Battle-Scarred: Justice Can Be Elusive

9. The Importance of Fathers

Sunday, July 15th, 2012

What about the father?  David Blankenhorn wrote a book, Fatherless America, to show the importance of the father.  At the Fellowship of Catholic Scholars convention in 1999, he called the father “that first significant other” or “the first encounter with an intimate other,” Here he means “other than mother.”  In spite of his promotion of good fathers, Mr. Blankenhorn stressed the importance of the mother-baby relationship during the first three years of life.

Dr. Herbert Ratner was a public health doctor,a convert to the Catholic faith who gave many talks to the laity on marriage and family, and a strong advocate of breastfeeding and good parenting. At a Catholic Physicians Guild of Chicago in 1997, he made the following comments on fathers:
“I will give you two words that characterize what fathers have to offer their children, and these apply to parents in general. Love and time. The father  “romances” each new child by delighting in and falling in love with the newborn. In addition, the male gives moral and emotional support by appreciating the nurturing mother and is customarily the provider and the
protector of the mother and child. With the passage of time, he contributes more and more to the emotional, intellectual, and moral formation of the child.”

A father is (or ought to be) an invaluable support for his wife.  His love and support can help her feel good about herself as she devotes herself to the task of good mothering and to breastfeeding. Behind most successful breastfeeding mothers is a good husband and dad who offers spiritual and emotional support to his wife and who provides for her and the children so that she can be there to raise their children. Dads can enjoy their little ones through many activities. They can hold, play, walk, dance, bathe, dress, read, sing, whistle, teach, and pray when spending time with their baby. Dads can form close relationships with their children by spending time with them. Any child today is especially lucky when he has a mom and dad who love him dearly and express that love in simple ways.

Beginning July 22 through August 7th, the following printed books will be available at 30% discount at www.lulu.com:
The Seven Standards of Ecological Breastfeeding: The Frequency Factor
Breastfeeding and Natural Child Spacing, the 1974 Harper & Row classic edition
Natural Family Planning: The Complete Approach (coil version)
Battle-Scarred: Justice Can Be Elusive
This sale is being offered from the start of NFP Week and goes through World Breastfeeding Week.

Sheila Kippley
Breastfeeding and Catholic Motherhood
The Seven Standards of Ecological Breastfeeding
The Crucial First Three Years