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Theology of the Body and Breastfeeding

Sunday, September 12th, 2010

The Theology of the Body is most often applied to the relationship between man and woman, but it also applies in a special way to the nursing relationship between a mother and her baby.  Through the act of breastfeeding, a mother gives of her very self to her baby, giving not only food but love and comfort as well.  This giving relationship reflects the donative meaning of the body.  Our bodies make sense only in light of giving them and using them for others.  And a nursing mother constantly gives her body — her arms, her breasts, her eyes — to her baby.  She is rewarded when her baby begins to smile at her, caress her, and even kick with joy as she prepares to nurse him or her….
           The delicate interplay of nutrition, love, and comfort involved when a mother nurses her baby can also provide the benefit of natural postpartum infertility.  There is a form of Natural Family Planning called Ecological Breastfeeding, or eco-breastfeeding.  Eco-breastfeeding is, in fact, the original form of NFP, which often kept the birth interval at 3-5 years in primitive societies. 

Maureen Armendariz
NFPI Teacher with her husband
Wichita KS
Full article was published in Catholic Advance, August 6, 2010.  The above is taken from part of the article.

NFP: Differences between CCL and NFP International

Sunday, August 17th, 2008

Differences between NFP International and CCL International

Inquirers have asked us to state the substantive differences between what is taught by Natural Family Planning International and what is currently taught by the Couple to Couple League International.  The differences are clear. 

Background.  We founded both organizations—CCL in 1971 and NFPI in 2004.  We brought to the League in 1971 three charisms or perspectives.  This became known as the Triple Strand approach to teaching NFP.
 1.  We taught ecological breastfeeding as a form of NFP.   
 2.  We taught the biblically based covenant theology of sexuality as a way to support Humanae Vitae and to explain the meaning of the marriage act.  This concept can be stated in 17 words.  “Sexual intercourse is intended by God to be at least implicitly a renewal of the marriage covenant.”  This concept easily lends itself to consideration of what is involved when man and wife enter into that covenant.
 3.  We were open to all the signs of fertility and developed different rules for different situations. 
    We directed and guided the League for 32 years.  In late 2003 a separation occurred.  In 2004 the new CCLI management decided to terminate its international activities in languages other than English and Spanish.  Later in 2004 we formed NFP International to support what we had previously started in other European languages and to keep our traditional Triple Strand program alive and well via the internet.  In 2005 we opened the NFPI Website, www.NFPandmore.org, and published our online manual titled Natural Family Planning
 
Changes.  In December, 2007 CCL announced significant changes to the traditional program.  CCL titled its announcement an EXTREME MAKEOVER, and the title reflected the changes it made.
 
1.  CCL dropped the teaching of ecological breastfeeding as a form of natural family planning. 
   On the contrary, we continue to believe that that eco-breastfeeding definitely IS a form of natural family planning.  We believe that it is God’s own plan for spacing babies and therefore the world’s oldest form of NFP.  We further believe that couples deserve to learn about breastfeeding not only as part of God’s plan for healthy babies and mothers but also as part of his plan for baby care and natural baby spacing.
    We know from scientific studies that eco-breastfeeding DOES space babies IF mothers follow the natural mothering pattern first described in Breastfeeding and Natural Child Spacing: The Ecology of Natural Mothering.  We also know that there are misunderstandings about breastfeeding’s influence on baby spacing.  Therefore we are doing what we can to provide the proper information and practical help.
 a.  The preceding book (classic 1974 Harper & Row edition) has been republished (Lulu, 2008, quality paperback).
 b.  To help mothers better understand more clearly the baby-care behaviors usually necessary to experience breastfeeding’s natural infertility, Sheila has also written The Seven Standards of Ecological Breastfeeding: The Frequency Factor (Lulu, 2008). 
 c.  In our NFP manual, Natural Family Planning, a chapter is devoted to ecological breastfeeding, and we teach this material in the NFPI three-meeting course.  

2.  In its “extreme makeover,” CCL dropped the covenant theology of sexuality stated above.  CCL has replaced this with an interpretation of the “Theology of the Body” (TOB) developed by Pope John Paul II between 1979 and 1984.  
    The papal TOB is widely praised and rightly so, but experts recognize that it is huge and difficult to understand.  Our experience is that because the TOB covers so much, it needs careful definition.  Further, unless you are reading the entire Theology of the Body and/or are taking a good course on it, what you hear or learn is someone’s interpretation, not the TOB itself.
    We are pleased to note that when the Pope in 1994 was addressing the laity about the meaning of the marriage act, he incorporated the idea that it ought to be a renewal of the marriage covenant.  “In the conjugal act, husband and wife are called to confirm in a responsible way the mutual gift of self which they have made to each other in the marriage covenant” (Letter to Families, n.12).
    Our experience is that couples can grasp and understand this basic concept almost intuitively once they hear it.  Therefore, we continue to believe that covenant theology of sexuality provides a succinct and very workable way to support and explain the teaching of Humanae Vitae.

3.  In its “extreme makeover,” CCL dropped the concept of having different rules for different situations.  It has replaced this with what they call a single rule, but its modifications for different situations effectively make it into three rules. 
    We continue to think it is useful to have different rules for different situations. 

4.  Also included in its “extreme makeover” is a different perspective about how to convey the teaching of the Church regarding the proper use of natural family planning.  Humanae Vitae uses “serious reasons” in section 10 and “just causes” in section 16 to describe the qualifying reasons for the morally good use of NFP. 
    The CCL Student Guide mentions only “just reasons.” 
    In NFPI we use the phrase “sufficiently serious reasons,” as we have done for many years, to convey the meaning of both of these sections of Humanae Vitae. 

Cost: The CCL 3-meeting course costs $135.00.  The NFPI 3-meeting course suggested donation is anywhere from $45 to $85–depending on what the teaching couple decides to offer by way of books in addition to the Natural Family Planning manual used at the NFPI classes.  Our pastor wanted us to charge at least $100 or $125 for the classes because that was the cost for other marriage preparation programs in our area.  Sheila didn’t feel right about that amount.  The pastor, Sheila and I settled on $70.00.  At our classes, Sheila and I give each attending couple the NFPI manual, and the BD digital thermometer. 
For further details, see our postings in various categories of blogs (upper right corner of website).

John F. Kippley
Sex and the Marriage Covenant: A Basis for Morality
www.nfpandmore.org

The Human Body: The Formation of a Correct Conscience

Sunday, October 28th, 2007

This is the eighth installment of my commentary on The Human Body: a sign of dignity and a gift by Fr. Richard M. Hogan. For publication details, see the blog for September 9, 2007.

On page 27 of his 38-page booklet, The Human Body, Fr. Richard Hogan begins a section titled “Formation of Conscience.” In the five pages of this section, Fr. Hogan weaves together ten quotations from Veritatis Splendor (The Splendor of the Truth), an encyclical of Pope John Paul II. This section with its heavy use of the words of John Paul II has the drawback of being somewhat difficult to read—a characteristic of the late Pope’s style of writing. The substance requires several readings but it is sound.

After the last quotation, Fr. Hogan takes up the issue of acting in good faith but with an erroneous conscience. That is, the person thought that an objectively evil action was a good action and did it. He puts it this way: “In other words, if we honestly judged an act morally acceptable and did it, and then later discovered it was morally unacceptable, the goodness of the act we did does not change.” That’s not a good choice of words. The action was objectively an evil action. The evil of the action remains. The issue here is personal culpability. The person who does an evil action but thought it was a good action does not incur the personal culpability of sin at the time of the action. Nor does he incur it when he later learns that the action was evil.

That raises the question, “How can a person think that an evil action is a good action?” That, in turn, introduces the issues of vincible ignorance and invincible ignorance, and Fr. Hogan did not address those issues; after all, he wrote a booklet, not a book. “Vincible” is a Latin derivative meaning “conquerable,” so invincible ignorance is the sort of ignorance you can overcome in your circumstances and therefore you should overcome it. Invincible ignorance is the sort of ignorance that you cannot overcome in your circumstances at that time.

In my Sex and the Marriage Covenant, Chapter 6 deals with “Fundamentals about Conscience” and gets into these matters in some detail. Chapter 7, “Forming a Correct Conscience” explores this more fully and then applies the principles to the issue of forming a correct conscience on birth control. In it you will find significant documentation showing that Pope John Paul II amply fulfilled the requirements of Vatican II for teaching in such a way as to require “religious submission of will and of mind . . . to the authentic teaching authority of the Roman Pontiff, even when he is not speaking ex cathedra” (Lumen Gentium, The Dogmatic Constitution on the Church, n. 25 ).

The last section of The Human Body is titled “Marriage as a Sacrament.” Here Fr. Hogan uses the fivefold description of love used previously in the booklet. “As we have seen, love always is 1) a choice 2) based on knowledge. This choice is 3) a self-gift and this self-gift is 4) permanent and 5) life-giving.” It’s easy to see how that applies to marriage itself; it is not so clear how that applies to other individual acts of love such as serving in a soup kitchen. That sentence led me to search the booklet, and in my hasty review of underlined passages, I couldn’t find any sentence in which Fr. Hogan clearly teaches what the individual marriage act ought to be. That’s a great advantage of the covenant theology of human sexuality. It has no problem in teaching that each and every marriage act ought to be a true marriage act, at least implicitly a renewal of the marriage covenant.

In this section, Fr. Hogan does a nice job of weaving together eight quotations from the Catechism of the Catholic Church and two from the Catholic Church’s Rite of Marriage. He concludes with a teaching that needs to be repeated over and over again, namely, that marriage is the normal way in which spouses are called to help each other on the way to heaven.

Overall evaluation. While this booklet has its good points, I think its negatives are sufficiently strong that it should be withdrawn from circulation. It would benefit by a careful review by an ecclesiastical reader in an official, canonical procedure to secure a diocesan “Permission to publish.” In addition, I think the author would do well to read these commentaries. I am sure that Fr. Hogan meant well in writing this booklet, just as I hope that he would grant that I have meant well in writing these commentaries. Still, good intentions do not guarantee excellence, and I realize that applies to my comments as well as to his writing. I am happy to state that these commentaries are now completed.

In these commentaries, I have several times referred to Sex and the Marriage Covenant for further reading. If you are interested in the faith and theological issues involved in the birth control question, please read it. Ignatius Press graciously published a second edition in 2005, and you can order it through our home page. Tracy Jamison, Ph.D., has astutely taken issue with one of my conclusions in the book in an article published in Homelitic & Pastoral Review.

Next week: A Special Message from Sheila

John F. Kippley
Sex and the Marriage Covenant: A Basis for Morality (Ignatius, 2005)
Natural Family Planning: The Question-Answer Book, a short, readable, and free e-book available for downloading at www.NFPandmore.org .