Archive for the ‘NFPI’ Category

Would Natural Family Planning International be welcome in your diocese?

Sunday, September 29th, 2013

Natural Family Planning International is unique with its emphasis on the New Evangelization, ecological breastfeeding as a form of NFP, and a choice-oriented approach to systematic NFP, and Catholic moral teaching.

The New Evangelization.  We hear much about this but see little that is concrete.  Early on it was defined as the effort to show that Jesus is the Author of the specific teachings of the Church, and that is what guided us in writing our NFP manual, Natural Family Planning: The Complete Approach.  In chapter 1, we connect the dots between Jesus and Humanae Vitae via the Last Supper and Nicea.  One can obtain a printed copy of the teaching manual and/or download it from our website, www.nfpandmore.org, for review.

Systematic natural family planning.  We teach all the common fertility signs and relevant rules. Only by knowing about each of the common signs can couples make a well informed choice about which ones to use.

Catholic morality.  We transmit standard Catholic teaching about the need to have a sufficiently serious reason to use NFP to avoid or postpone pregnancy.  We also teach relevant Catholic morality concerning specific immoralities during the fertile time.

The covenant theology.  This theology was originally intended to be an agent of evangelization among our fellow Catholics, but it has also proved to be helpful for others.  You may be aware that Scott Hahn credits it with helping to persuade him and his wife to accept Catholic teaching on birth control when they were still Protestant.  This is also integrated into Chapter 1 and supports Humanae Vitae.

Ecological breastfeeding.  Every year there seems to be some new research revealing a benefit of breastfeeding, and most of these benefits are dose-related and duration-related.  Every style of breastfeeding conveys some benefits, but only ecological breastfeeding according to the seven standards has sufficient baby-spacing that it deserves to be taught as a form of natural family planning.  Chapter 6 of our manual is devoted to this subject.  Extensive research is found at our website.

Ecological breastfeeding should not be a matter of controversy, but some are very resistant to teaching it.  As my wife and I see eco-breastfeeding, this is part of God’s plan for mother and baby.  It is part of his order of creation.  We didn’t invent the ecology.  All we have done is to describe it.  My wife’s research built upon previous research; her unique contribution was the seven-standards hypothesis.  She demonstrated it, and others have done the same.  Eco-breastfeeding according to the seven standards IS a form of natural baby spacing.

The big question for dioceses is this:  Does the diocese help to inform young people about this ecology or does it ignore it?  We believe ecological breastfeeding is simply a God-arranged plan that maximizes all the benefits of breastfeeding AND normally delays the return of menstruation and fertility for an average of 14 to 15 months among American mothers.  (In some cultures the duration of breastfeeding infertility is much longer.)  It is the natural baby spacing that provides a compelling reason for teaching this as part of NFP instruction–especially when the instruction is required by the archdiocese or diocese.  We believe that everyone has a God-given right to know this information so that they can make an informed choice.  That means that Catholic educators, especially those preparing couples for marriage, should be teaching this information.

Inquiries by dioceses are welcome.

In His service,
John F. Kippley
www.nfpandmore.org

Evaluations from Couples Taking a Natural Family Planning Course

Sunday, November 4th, 2012

At the end of teaching our NFP course, John and I are told by the couples that they are amazed at how much they have learned.  One of our teaching couples shared their evaluations with us and I would like to share them with you.

Here are the evaluations from one NFPI course:
**We learned how to observe & chart in order that we may plan our family in the most natural way, the way God intended.
**Learned that breastfeeding can slow down ovulation.  Great class; was first against or scared about breastfeeding; now I learned all the benefits and I am all for breastfeeding
**Enjoyed the presentation; discovered how my body reacted after taking the pill for the last 5 years; learned more about my cycles after 2 months off the pill  (She had little mucus and delayed ovulation; then it was more normal with mucus patch and an earlier temperature rise.  She is marrying late and hopes to conceive on her honeymoon.)
**Awesome info!!! great job 🙂
**Talk and stress more on abstinence as 100% birth control especially as this is a “pre-marriage” class!!!
**We have a better understanding as to what NFP is; also, we now know how to prevent pregnancy if we have a serious reason not to conceive; we would have liked more Breastfeeding information, perhaps a whole class!!.  No changes needed; on that note, we enjoyed all the information that was given!

And evaluations from another course:
+ “We learned how to plan our family, and learned how to check when I am ovulating, and it was so fun and exciting when it happened the first time.”  🙂
+ “I loved coming to class.”
+ “We really enjoyed this class with all the information you have given us and we have decided to do NFP.  We love the whole concept about it.”
+ “Very good information on how to chart.  Knowing your body better.  Great information on breastfeeding.  Great information on fertility.”
+ “I believe this is a great class that everybody should know about because there is nothing better than it being natural.”
+ “A vast  knowledge on NFP – it is a different way of planning your family that we did not know of; I think it is good to have taken this class to get a new aspect on how to plan your family.”
+ “We got a lot of useful information on monitoring our bodies so we can prevent pregnancy or cause it.”
+ “This was very informative.  I learned a lot about my body’s natural signs for family planning – thank you.”

Anyone can take the online NFPI home study course.  The course follows the teachings in the NFPI manual and is taken by email.

Sheila Kippley

Natural Family Planning: Find a Priest and Become an NFP Teacher

Sunday, October 7th, 2012

There are couples who want to help others in their Church.  There are also priests who desire to help couples follow Church teaching on love, marriage and sexuality.  These priests who desire the right kind of natural family planning (NFP) instruction for their engaged and married couples might consider making the NFPI course required for their engaged couples preparing for marriage.

Some folks believe that you should not teach the engaged anything about NFP.  But where else will they learn about spacing their babies naturally through eco-breastfeeding?  This is part of God’s plan which involves little instruction and no abstinence.  Where do they learn about being generous in having children?  Where do they learn about the covenant theology of marriage (a way to teach the theology of the body that the couple can easily remember)?

Try to find a priest who wants to make a good NFP course a normal requirement for his engaged couples and become an NFP teaching couple.  Unfortunately, if your priest does not make the course required, then you will probably have no one to teach. Church bulletin announcements rarely bring in anyone to your classes.  The teacher training is free and can be done online.

For more information about becoming an NFPI teacher, contact NFPI.

For learning the method well, read carefully Natural Family Planning: The Complete Approach—doing the work as you progress—or take the online home study course.

This is a vitally important ministry.  To learn why, watch this video.

Sheila Kippley
Natural Family Planning: The Complete Approach
Breastfeeding and Catholic Motherhood
The Seven Standards of Ecological Breastfeeding: The Frequency Factor