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Renewal within the Catholic Church: Some things to be done

Sunday, October 25th, 2009

The renewal of Western culture is extremely dependent upon authentic renewal within the Catholic Church.  Everyone who wants to replace our contemporary culture of death with a true culture of life needs to face up to some basic realities.  Some of these are simply statements of fact; others call for action.  Authentic renewal within the Church requires both the recognition of current realities and systematic action.  Such renewal will not happen without every reasonable effort within the Church.

What follows makes no claim to be a complete agenda for authentic renewal within the Church.  Some might want to place more emphasis on liturgical renewal.  I can only point out that every previous heresy in the Church occurred when the Liturgy was in Latin or Greek.  Further, a church full of adulterers, contraceptors, fornicators, and sodomites singing Gregorian chant would not be a church renewed.  There is no need to treat different agendas as sequential, but some issues are truly matters of life and death.

• There will be no stopping abortion without a rebirth of chastity.  Those who think they can stop abortion without a rebirth of chastity are wishful thinkers.  They need to revisit Planned Parenthood v Casey, the 1992 U. S. Supreme Court decision that essentially said the country needs abortion in order to continue its lifestyle of contraception, fornication and adultery. 

• There will be no rebirth of premarital chastity without a rebirth of marital chastity.  The sexual revolution started with the acceptance of unnatural forms of birth control for married couples.  It is also easier for married couples to practice chastity than it is for singles.  For married couples chastity involves only periodic, not total, abstinence from the marriage act when practicing systematic NFP. 

• There will be no renewal of Catholic marriages without a widespread rejection of marital contraception.  Now that the Catholic rate of contraception equals that of non-Catholic America, so does its divorce rate. 

• There will be no widespread rejection of marital contraception without a widespread acceptance of natural family planning.  This should be self-evident.

• There will be no widespread acceptance of natural family planning without a concerted and sustained effort on the part of Catholic bishops and priests to do what they can to help Catholics form their consciences according to authentic Catholic teaching.
 
• In the current situation of Catholics with culturally formed consciences, that means that bishops and priests need to exercise their leverage so that Catholics will have every opportunity to form their consciences according to the truths about love, marriage and human sexuality taught by Christ through his Church. 

• Bishops and priests have the God-given authority to require engaged couples to take a full course on natural family planning as a normal part of preparation for marriage, and they need to do so. 

• Such a course should be the right kind of course, not just a course on “Catholic birth control.”

Next week:  Natural Family Planning: the right kind of course

John F. Kippley
Sex and the Marriage Covenant

Natural Family Planning Course: What it should teach

Sunday, July 26th, 2009

Every engaged couple should take a complete course in natural family planning as part of the normal process of preparing for marriage.  Such a course should teach the Seven Standards of ecological breastfeeding, all the signs of fertility and infertility, and the doctrine of the Church regarding birth control.  An NFP course should be an agent of evangelization.  It should not only explain what the Church teaches about birth control and natural family planning, but should also affirm the divinely aided teaching authority of the Church.
      For different approaches on the evil of contraception and for extensive Biblical foundations and ecclesial documentation supporting the doctrine of birth regulation taught by the Church, read Chapters 16, 17 and 18 in Sex and the Marriage Covenant: A Basis for Morality. 

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Sheila Kippley
Natural Family Planning: The Complete Approach, 2009
Breastfeeding and Catholic Motherhood, 2005
The Seven Standards of Ecological Breastfeeding: The Frequency Factor, 2008
Breastfeeding and Natural Child Spacing, 1974 classic edition, 2008

A good natural family planning course

Sunday, July 12th, 2009

What should couples learn in a balanced or good NFP program?
      By “good” we mean complete.  What couples should learn is far more than just an inexpensive and effective method of spacing babies.  What they will learn in a well-rounded NFP program will include the following:
     •How the fertility-menstrual cycle functions
     •The common signs of fertility and infertility
     •The importance of well-balanced nutrition for healthy fertility
     •Natural ways to enhance fertility 
     •The practical, health-related  reasons for making the NFP-only decision
     •The moral and religious reasons for the NFP-only decision
     •The most accurate way to estimate the “due date”
     •Exclusive breastfeeding
     •The Seven Standards of Ecological breastfeeding
     •The return of fertility after childbirth
     •How to manage special situations

Sheila Kippley
Natural Family Planning: The Complete Approach, 2009
Breastfeeding and Catholic Motherhood, 2005
The Seven Standards of Ecological Breastfeeding: The Frequency Factor, 2008
Breastfeeding and Natural Child Spacing, 1974 classic edition, 2008