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What is natural family planning?

Sunday, June 28th, 2009

Sheila:  A friend was under many deadlines and asked John if he could provide a text summarizing natural family planning and Church teaching in 250 words or less.  Our friend needed this the next day. The following is what John wrote:

A brief description of Natural Family Planning in 234 words:

Natural Family Planning (or NFP) is a general term that refers to the use of natural methods to achieve and to avoid pregnancy.  There are two basic forms of NFP—Systematic NFP and Ecological Breastfeeding. 

Systematic NFP consists of “fertility awareness” so that the spouses know the fertile and infertile times of the wife’s fertility-menstrual cycle.  Fertility awareness is an educated awareness of the normal female signs of fertility and infertility.  There are several common signs of fertility, and when couples take an NFP course, they learn how to observe and interpret these signs.  When seeking pregnancy, they engage in the marriage act during the fertile time.  When seeking to avoid pregnancy, the couple practice chaste abstinence during the fertile time.   
 
The second basic form of NFP is Ecological Breastfeeding.  This is a form of the form of nursing in which 1) the mother fulfills her baby’s needs for frequent suckling and her full-time presence and 2) in which the child’s frequent suckling postpones the return of the mother’s fertility.  Studies have shown that mothers who do this form of breastfeeding experience, on the average, 14 to 15 months before their first postpartum period.

Since the apostolic era, the Catholic Church has taught that it is immoral to use contraception.  Today, the Church encourages couples to learn NFP, to be generous in having children, and to raise them in the ways of the Lord.

by John Kippley

Evaluations of a Natural Family Planning Course

Sunday, May 3rd, 2009

Following are the evaluations my husband and I received after teaching an NFPI Course ending April 8, 2009.  No comment was omitted.

What we got out of these classes
   To see the truth of God and his universe being knowable hitting so close home.
   Learning NFP and all the methods
   We now have a better understanding of NFP.  We learned a lot of things that we did not know.
   Much information, some new and some that I knew.  I am pleased with the information and excited to know it.
   I really enjoyed coming and learning the different methods of NFP and especially learning the ecological breastfeeding.  It was very fascinating to see what God’s creation really means.
   Learning how to do NFP for ourselves.  Benefits of breastfeeding.

What we would like to know more about
   The stuff we need to know will come with practice.
   Ecological breastfeeding
   Ecological and exclusive breastfeeding
   I think it was well covered.
   Very impressive research.
   Very well put together manual.

Overall comments and suggestions
   Yet another reason for loving our Church
   We really appreciate you taking your time to teach this class—you are truly doing God’s work!    Keep it up and we’ll be in touch.
   I think you could emphasize, although it was hit on well, about not using this as birth control.  I know more than a few people who feel empowered to limit their family size to 2 – 3 children because they are using NFP and think that it is ok without grave reason to do so.  Like I said it was hit on but I think with our culture it could be pounded.
   Wonderful.  Thank God for teachers like you!
   Very good information on all the different methods of NFP.

Interest in NFPI Teaching?  If any couple is interested in evanglizing through the teaching of the covenant theology, ecological breastfeeding, and systematic NFP with its many options, please contact us at nfpandmore@nfpandmore.org.

Interested in having John Kippley come to teach the NFPI course on a weekend?  There are 2 requirements.  You must have at least 7 couples attending the course, and John’s expenses are to be covered.  Contact John at: nfpandmore@nfpandmore.org.

Interested in a Home Study Program for marriage requirement?  Contact NFPI.  Here is what one lady said after finishing her NFP requirement for marriage preparation (received May 2, 2009):  “Dear Kippleys, Thank you so much for your help in teaching me NFP.  As we were beginning to prepare for marriage, it was a big fear factor, and you made it so much less intimidating! I don’t think we could have done better, and I am so grateful that you offer this. God bless,…”

Sheila Kippley

Natural Family Planning: A Unique and Complete Approach

Sunday, April 26th, 2009

Natural Family Planning: A Unique and Complete Approach to NFP Instruction

Last week we listed some of the factors that make NFPI instruction unique and complete.  This week’s blog continues that explanation.

Ecological breastfeeding as a form of natural family planning.
    Ecology is concerned with the relationships between two organisms and how each affects the other.  Ecological breastfeeding is the form of nursing in which the mother fulfills her baby’s needs for frequent suckling and her full-time presence and in which the child’s frequent suckling postpones the return of the mother’s fertility.  This pattern is easily described as the Seven Standards of Ecological Breastfeeding in which each Standard is a maternal behavior that affects this interdependent relationship.  Research has shown that mothers who follow the Seven Standards experience, on the average, 14 to 15 months of breastfeeding infertility.  This has two great benefits.
    • Baby spacing of approximately two years between births, on average, without recourse to fertility awareness and periodic abstinence.
    • Maximization of the many health benefits for baby and mother alike.  These benefits are dose related; the longer the baby nurses, the more the benefits that both mother and baby receive.  However, only frequent nursing maintains the milk supply so that babies can nurse for an extended duration.  How long?  In 1995, Pope John Paul II endorsed the recommendations of WHO and UNICEF for mothers to nurse their babies for at least two years if at all possible.  This sounds strange to many Western ears, but it is based on sound public-health preventive medicine.   Just this past week we learned of research reported in the May 2009 issue of Obstetrics & Gynecology.   It describes the long term maternal benefits of breastfeeding.  We will blog on this in the week of May 10. 
 
    Only NFP International teaches ecological breastfeeding as a form of natural family planning in its regular course of NFP instruction.  Such instruction does not force anyone to breastfeed for any specific duration, but it does empower couples to make a well informed choice.  After all, human persons can choose only what they know. 

Modest cost
    Because the NFPI service is provided by volunteers who see teaching NFP as an apostolate, the costs for the student couple are minimal.  For example, the suggested donation of $70.00 includes an NFP manual, a thermometer, charts, the instruction in three 2-hour classes, continued free charts, and counseling as needed.

Interest in NFPI Teaching?  If any couple is interested in evanglizing through the teaching of the covenant theology, ecological breastfeeding, and systematic NFP with its several options, please contact us at nfpandmore@nfpandmore.org.

John F. Kippley
Sex and the Marriage Covenant: A Basis for Morality