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Commencement Address: Part 1

Sunday, January 4th, 2009

Commencement Address at Franciscan University of Steubenville by John F. Kippley, Dec. 13, 2008: Part 1
Sheila and I want to thank the Franciscan University of Steubenville for this great honor. We especially want to thank Fr. Terence Henry; Fr. Christian Oravec and members of the Board of Trustees; Fr. Michael Scanlan; and Members of the Board of Advisors for honoring our work of the past 40 years in this way.

Honored members of the University, fellow graduates, parents, family and friends, we thank you for being here and for making this school the great University that it is. 

You have honored us for our work in the field of Natural Family Planning and for upholding sexual morality in marriage.  We are most happy to accept this honor not just for ourselves but also on behalf of all those who work in the Natural Family Planning apostolate, and especially on behalf of those who teach as volunteers.  Some couples have been teaching Natural Family Planning —or NFP for short—as volunteers for more than 30 years.  They obviously believe that the NFP apostolate is extremely important. 

President Franklin D. Roosevelt once was asked what makes a good speech.  He replied, “Be brief, be sincere, and be seated.”  I will try to follow that advice.

Commencement means a beginning, not an ending.  This is the beginning of the life for which you have prepared for the last four years or more.  First, I want to congratulate you for earning your college degrees.  You have worked hard.  You have done research.  You have written papers and passed your examinations.  You are prepared in many different ways to contribute to the various work and social environments in which you will be active.  You are prepared to use your special gifts in the service of your families, your Church, your place of work, and your culture. 

You are about to start working or doing further academic work in a world where your Catholic faith will be challenged.  Your education here at Franciscan University has prepared you to meet these challenges.  In fact, you are among the best prepared college graduates in the world to bring your education and your other gifts to meet those challenges.  You won’t know the answer to every challenge you meet, but part of your education consists in learning how and where to find the answers so that you can continue a constructive dialogue.  Responding in a positive way to the challenges to your faith will provide you with some of your greatest satisfactions in life.  

We all know that you are graduating in tough economic times.  Who could have imagined the current situation when you started your freshman year or graduate studies?  Sheila and I join you in praying that you may soon be working in your chosen field.  May God bless your every effort to use your gifts in his service.

To be continued next week.

NFP Celebration

Sunday, December 28th, 2008

NFP Celebration for the Kippleys

   We were gratified to receive honorary degrees at Franciscan University of Steubenville’s Winter Commencement on December 13, 2008  for “a lifetime of work in teaching Natural Family Planning (NFP) and upholding sexual morality in marriage.”
   The following address was given by Rev. Terence Henry TOR, President of Franciscan University, before the conferral of the honorary degrees:
   “For the past 40 years, John and Sheila Kippley have helped tens of thousands of couples understand and embrace the Church’s teachings on life. Beginning in 1971, shortly after Pope Paul VI released his encyclical Humanae Vitae, the couple started teaching Natural Family Planning classes in their Minnesota parish.  In addition to the Sympto-Thermal Method, those classes also included Sheila’s research on ecological breastfeeding, which she had published in 1969 in her book, Breastfeeding and Natural Child Spacing.
   In 1972, the Kippleys moved to Cincinnati, Ohio, where they began work on their landmark book, The Art of Natural Family Planning (1973), and started training other couples to teach Natural Family Planning methods.  Within a few short years, their efforts went global, with their work eventually receiving the endorsement of the National Conference of Catholic Bishops.  To date, well over 200,000 couples have attended NFP classes in the U.S. alone, and thousands of books, tapes, and newsletters on NFP have been distributed worldwide.
   In 2004 the Kippleys established Natural Family Planning International to continue their efforts to educate couples on the problems of birth control and the benefits of Natural Family Planning and breastfeeding.
   Married for more than 45 years, the Kippleys have five children and many grandchildren.”

Eco-Breastfeeding: Does It Work?

Sunday, November 9th, 2008

Yes, it does.  Eco-breastfeeding is a wonderful way to space the births of your children naturally. Below, some express their views on natural child spacing.  These comments illustrate that ecological breastfeeding should be part of all natural family planning instruction.

“Our first three children came in three and a half years.  I remember the night I sat on my couch with a screaming infant, up for the third time in two hours, feeding him a bottle. I said out loud, with tears streaming down my face from exhaustion, ‘There has to be a better way to take care of my babies. It shouldn’t be this hard!’  I breastfed our third child for 25 months and fertility returned at 19 months postpartum.  I am still nursing my 18 month old and have not had a cycle yet.  I have to wonder if the NFP movement is trying to make sure they don’t make waves for those mothers who go back to work not out of necessity but out of want.  I heard a priest in a homily say that 90% of Catholics contracept.  90%.  My jaw hit the floor.  That says a lot about NFP, eco-breastfeeding, and Catholic families today.  Continue your work despite the roadblocks. There are those of us who are listening.”

“I have a 13 month old daughter.  We are eco-breastfeeders, although until I read about eco-breastfeeding at your website I didn’t realize that’s what we are doing!  I just did what felt natural and my husband is extremely supportive.  We did use a pacifier but not really to pacify as it were.  My daughter was very playful right from birth and sucking the pacifier was like a game to her.  We didn’t really use it when she was upset or cuddly.  Even with the use of a pacifier I have remained infertile or not resumed menses.  I am breastfeeding very frequently and I notice culturally it can be intimidating when others are unsure as to why you always use the breast to comfort. I always joke I will be the one weaning from breastfeeding, not my daughter, because it has been such a wonderful experience so far.”

“I am SUCH a better parent because of ecological breastfeeding.  It’s the BEST way to raise a child, if possible!!  Sorry if I offended anyone by saying that.  This age is so funny.  If we speak the truth that one thing is better than something else, people try to quiet us, claiming that we are being judgmental or narrow-minded.” 

“I don’t blame my Jewish friends for feeling overwhelmed after having 2 babies in one year and then getting on the pill for 5. It is extremely overwhelming. I do wonder though why we don’t learn the natural method for child spacing in school, in seminary, in kallah classes, etc. Why is it such a big secret? Why is it that when I tell this to my friends their eyes open wide and they say ‘Really? You spaced your babies without taking the pill!?’  Yes! Indeed, I used the inborn, natural, G-d given ability to nurse my babies so that Hashem can give me that space so I don’t have to use outside forces to prevent pregnancies.  I don’t think we were meant to have our babies a year apart; I do think we were meant to nurse.”

“Thank you for such a wonderful clearinghouse of information.  Now I have a site I can share with people who don’t understand why I nurse on demand or breastfeed my children beyond a year. I call it God Family Planning, and it has been a blessing in my life….Ecological breastfeeding proved to be a great way of naturally spacing children.”

“I was 25 at the birth of my first child and am now 34.  With eco-breastfeeding, my children are spaced 2.5 to 3 years apart.  I have not needed to use any other method of NFP to space
my children.”

Sheila Kippley
The Seven Standards of Ecological Breastfeeding: The Frequency Factor, 2008
Breastfeeding and Natural Child Spacing, 2008, classic edition
Breastfeeding and Catholic Motherhood, 2005
www.nfpandmore.org