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Natural Family Planning: The Right Kind of Instruction

Sunday, February 7th, 2016

I am convinced that a very important part of preparation for marriage is the right kind of instruction about natural family planning (NFP). I emphasize the “right kind” of NFP instruction because much of current NFP instruction is too secular and too focused on the cervical mucus sign of fertility. Too often the NFP instruction is not placed in the context of Christian discipleship, and the Ordinary Magisterium is ignored. Further, most current NFP programs ignore Ecological Breastfeeding, and many ignore the value of the temperature sign. There is nothing esoteric about any of these factors; every person, Catholic or not, has a human right to know them.

So why do I write? Because it is pastorally imperative to require that every engaged couple take the right kind of course in natural family planning as a normal part of preparation for marriage. The course I envision is definitely not just a course in fertility awareness. It is an effort at evangelization and specifically the New Evangelization which seeks to show that Jesus is the ultimate Author of Catholic teachings on love, marriage, family, and sexuality.

My wife, Sheila, and I have been teaching natural family planning since 1970. We came to the NFP apostolate from backgrounds that are reflected in what we teach. I was a parish lay evangelist when we taught our first organized course, and Sheila was a leader with a breastfeeding organization (La Leche League International). I have also taught theology at the college level. I think our experience has been and can be helpful to the Church. Essentially what we have been teaching for almost 45 years is very low cost compared to other programs, and experience has demonstrated that it can be taught just as well in Europe and Africa as in the United States. Experience has also demonstrated that Humanae Vitae is a great blessing, not just a burden.

The NFPI teaching program includes three areas that we think are very important, even imperative, for couples to learn. We call this the Triple Strand approach to natural family planning.

1. Theological support for Humanae Vitae

2. Ecological Breastfeeding

3. Open-ended fertility awareness

The NFPI Home Study Course is available to any couple who wants to learn natural family planning.

John F. Kippley

9. Natural Family Planning: Preparation for Marriage and What Couples Have a Right to Know

Sunday, January 3rd, 2016

Conclusion:
Every form of NFP instruction should include Ecological Breastfeeding simply because it is part of God’s plan for mothers and babies.  It is not only cost-free, but it saves all sorts of money in direct baby care, and it most likely saves money in health care.  Unfortunately, the NFP movement in North America largely ignores it except for our organization, NFP International (www.NFPandmore.org).

Another organization that promotes breastfeeding and especially ecological breastfeeding is the Catholic Nursing Mothers League (www.catholicbreastfeeding.org).  It seeks to develop chapters in parishes, and pastors would do well to cultivate their services.  For purposes of marriage instruction, the point is this.  Every woman and every man has a right to know about Ecological Breastfeeding and natural baby spacing.  God’s Church should be in the forefront of spreading this good news about the way God has made us.

The right kind of natural family planning instruction can help the New Evangelization effort of the Church and provide excellent support for the magisterial teaching of the Church regarding love, marriage and sexuality.  The “right kind” of NFP course teaches the seven subjects of these blogs.  To recall once again the gist of Romans 10:14ff, the Church cannot expect its people to believe and to act as they should unless the Church clearly teaches in such a way that its people hear and understand the message

John F. Kippley
(Adapted from talk given at the Fellowship of Catholic Scholars 2015 Convention, October 24)

8. Natural Family Planning: Preparation for Marriage and What Couples Have a Right to Know

Sunday, December 27th, 2015

7.  The Seven Standards of Ecological Breastfeeding: a natural way of spacing babies.  There are different patterns of breastfeeding, and all of them have a certain amount of value because of the inherent values of breast milk and the breastfeeding process.

With regard to breastfeeding and baby spacing, distinctions are critical.  In the Western world, common cultural breastfeeding patterns typically do NOT space babies.  Ecological breastfeeding, however, does provide a natural spacing of babies because it is a pattern of mother-baby closeness and frequent nursing.  Frequent suckling maintains the milk supply; frequent suckling also suppresses ovulation.  There is still confusion about this, and that’s why “breastfeeding and natural baby spacing” needs to be taught in terms of the Seven Standards of Ecological Breastfeeding.  These Standards are maternal behaviors that encourage frequent nursing.  As you will see in the following list, some of them are positive and some are negative.  However, all of them are contrary to common Western cultural nursing patterns.  The Seven Standards of Ecological Breastfeeding are as follows:

1.  Breastfeed exclusively for the first six months of life; don’t offer your baby other liquids and solids, not even water.
2.  Pacify or comfort your baby at your breasts.
3.  Don’t use bottles and don’t use pacifiers.
4.  Sleep with your baby for night feedings.
5.  Sleep with your baby for a daily-nap feeding.
6.  Nurse frequently day and night and avoid schedules.
7.  Avoid any practice that restricts nursing or separates you from your baby.

All seven standards are evidence based.  That is, published research demonstrates that each of these behaviors is associated with increased nursing.

It is highly inadequate to talk only about continued or extended breastfeeding as if that would provide the spacing many couples desire.  That language takes us back to fifty years ago when an international breastfeeding organization was saying that what they called “total breastfeeding” had a baby-spacing effect.  The problem is that such language says nothing about the importance of frequency.  My wife  and other nursing mothers noticed that there was a significant variation in the duration of breastfeeding amenorrhea—the absence of periods due to breastfeeding—among mothers doing “total breastfeeding.”  Some mothers would have a first period at three or four months postpartum while others would go for a year or more, and they wondered why.  Sheila was asked to research this, so she did.

Her research was first published in a nursing journal in 1972, and it showed that American mothers who followed the Seven Standards of Ecological Breastfeed went an average of 14.6 months before they had their first period.  She also found that the duration of amenorrhea more or less follows a normal distribution curve with 7% having a first period by six months and 33% still in amenorrhea at 18 months.  A second, much larger study published some years later found an almost identical average of 14.5 months of breastfeeding amenorrhea among American mothers.  More recently Sheila found independent research that supports each of the Seven Standards and published this in her book, The Seven Standards of Ecological Breastfeeding: The Frequency Factor.  All the standards are important.  Drop any one standard and the odds are that fertility will soon return.

There are two great advantages of Ecological Breastfeeding.  First, it maximizes the benefits of breastfeeding-in-general.  It maintains the milk supply and the baby gets all the health benefits intended by our Creator.

Second, it is a natural way of spacing babies.  Some couples use Ecological Breastfeeding as their only form of child spacing, while others will use Systematic NFP when fertility returns if they need additional spacing.  Among providentialist couples who want to let babies come as they may, it is imperative that they be well instructed about Ecological Breastfeeding because it is clearly God’s own plan for spacing babies.

John F. Kippley
To be continued next week —