Archive for 2007

A Breastfeeding Mistake Repeated

Sunday, November 18th, 2007

I have reviewed the breastfeeding information in the new CCL manual, The Art of Natural Family Planning: Student Guide, and it is disappointing.  There are two statements that are seriously incomplete and therefore possibly misleading.
 1) “Some studies show that 97% of mothers who exclusively breastfeed can be assured of postpartum infertility for at least six months” (page 161).
 2)  “Exclusive breastfeeding: Generally, highly infertile during the first six months postpartum” (Reference guide, page 254; italics in the original).
      For “exclusive breastfeeding” to be considered a time of infertility, it is essential that the mother still be in amenorrhea, at least after 56 days postpartum.  Bleeds up to 56 days postpartum are not to be counted as menses.  This “exclusive breastfeeding” rule is often called the Lactational Amenorrhea Method (LAM).  Amenorrhea means the absence of menstruation.  To repeat, the absence of menstruation is crucial for this method to be highly effective.  Mothers who count on natural infertility for six months may become pregnant while relying on the CCL statement if their menstruation returns before six months while exclusively breastfeeding. 
      On November 7, I wrote CCL for the studies mentioned in the first statement above.  Executive Director Andy Alderson did me the courtesy of a reply on November 14, as follows:  “Sorry for the delayed response.  While I understand your request, I’ve read your ongoing blogs against CCL.  I don’t think it is productive for the League to get into communications with you at this time.”
      I find it regrettable that Mr. Alderson regards our blog exposure of what CCL is doing and saying as being “against CCL.”  Our hope has been that CCL teachers, promoters, and other interested parties will recognize that CCL’s changes are not in the best interests of CCL.  We still hope they will be able to lead CCL’s current management back to its previous and successful path that was helpful to so many. 
      What our blogs are showing is what CCL is doing.  Is what CCL does  going “against CCL?”  Eventually others would have learned what we have exposed and may have blogged on the new changes.  CCL is welcome to present their viewpoint at each blog of ours if they choose to do so.  Of those who have told us they wrote to CCL about their concerns, none have received a reply.

CCL’s definition for exclusive breastfeeding in their new manual is not clear.   Here is the CCL definition: 
“Exclusive breastfeeding is defined by the World Health Organization (WHO) and the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) as the standard of care for babies during their first six months of life.  It is characterized by breastfeeding whenever the baby indicates a desire (day and night) with each feeding fully emptying the breast of milk.  Initially, a minimum of 8-12 feedings per day is required to establish the breastfeeding, with baby kept in close proximity to the mother” (page 154).
      Could a mother believe she is following the requirement for breastfeeding infertility if she nurses according to the definition of exclusive breastfeeding given above?  I certainly think so, so I will call it a “rule.”
      Do you see anywhere in that definition that the baby is to receive only breast milk for its nutrition during the first six months of life?  Could a mother read that definition, believe she is completely nursing and yet think it’s okay to give solids to her baby when her baby is three to five months old?  It looks that way to me.
      Also, nothing is said about the absence of pacifiers or sleeping with the baby or specific behaviors that would help the mother maintain breastfeeding amenorrhea during those first six months postpartum.
      During the mid-60s, as a La Leche League member and later as a LLL leader, I learned that many exclusively breastfeeding mothers have an early return of menstruation or become unexpectedly pregnant during the first six months after childbirth.  I learned that more than just “exclusive breastfeeding” is required to maintain amenorrhea.  If mothers want to have the 97% effectiveness rate (98% by most studies that include amenorrhea in their definition) during the first six months postpartum, they must not have any menstrual bleeding after the 56th day postpartum.  Exclusively breastfeeding mothers can become pregnant during the first six months postpartum if they are having menstrual cycles.
      The point is this.  If a mother does exclusive breastfeeding and hopes that this will give her natural infertility for at least six months, she needs to do more than just not give her baby other liquids or foods.  She needs to follow the Seven Standards of Ecological Breastfeeding.

Changes by CCL’s new management
We think it is unfortunate that the new CCL management has chosen to delete the major charisms that John and I brought to the League: ecological breastfeeding with its Seven Standards, the covenant theology of human sexuality, and a form of systematic NFP that offered different rules for different situations.  Another change is the dropping of ecological breastfeeding as a baby spacer.  On page 100 of the Student Guide the spacing of children is mentioned three times, but this is attributed to abstinence during the fertile time of the cycle.  In the new CCL manual, the natural spacing of births is not associated with breastfeeding except in the incomplete and misleading statements quoted above.

History Repeats Itself
CCL has previously had these problems with incorrect or inadequate instruction.  I know because in my last three years with CCL, I blew the whistle on mistakes in teacher training and instructional materials, and I received the typical whistleblower treatment.  CCL should have learned from their past mistakes.  Some of CCL’s previous mistakes involved the Lactational Amenorrhea Method.                                                                                                 I regret that I have to bring up this mistake again, but I feel obligated to point this out publicly in the hopes that the word will get out to CCL teachers.  CCL should include a corrections sheet with each manual. 
      All of us in the NFP movement need to be accurate and clear, no matter what rules or method we teach.  I really do wish CCL well, but it needs to get substantive things right the first time when teaching others.

Sheila Kippley
NFP International
www.NFPandMore.org
Author: Breastfeeding and Catholic Motherhood and Natural Family Planning: The Question-Answer Book (e-book at this website)

Giving Back: The Appeal Continues

Sunday, November 11th, 2007

The loss of ecological breastfeeding in CCL is a more serious matter, because as far as I know, it is only yourselves and the old CCL who have promoted it systematically.  I know of no one else.”  a veteran NFP teacher in an email November 10 responding to the new CCL teaching program

The appeal continues from last week because of the serious need for donations.  Please share this appeal with others.   The appeal below is the same as last week.    Next week Sheila comments on the new CCL Student NFP manual.

Last year at this time, John was in California undergoing treatment for prostate cancer at the Loma Linda University Medical Center. This place has been the leader in a form of radiation called the proton beam therapy. As you may know, almost all the various treatments have very high success rates in curing prostate cancer, but most of them also have some undesirable side effects such as urinary incontinence and sexual impotence to one degree or another. Proton beam therapy has almost none of the first and a relatively small amount of the latter. Since almost everyone of those being treated was spared the inconvenience of wearing diapers, they were grateful. It was common to hear the guys talking about doing something by way of giving back to the institution that helped them.

NFP International needs that sort of “giving back” spirit among those who have been helped by our work over the past 36 years. We, John and Sheila Kippley, are not asking for any financial support for ourselves. We live adequately on Social Security for the most part, and we are happy to be 100% volunteers for NFPI. We just hope that people who have been helped by us in past years or recently will want to give back to NFPI in order to maintain and significantly expand our current level of service. And just what sort of service does NFPI render?

The website. We opened the NFPI website, www.nfpandmore.org, in 2005 with the intention of making it the “go to” website for Natural Family Planning. We have made significant strides toward that goal but we certainly have much more to do.

Our online manual, Natural Family Planning: The Question-Answer Book, is for self-instruction. It is short, easy reading and free. Most NFP websites promote their NFP course. There’s nothing wrong with that, but many couples can learn very well from our manual. It is far more complete than the material from which we first learned the STM, and users can and do contact us for additional free help via email and phone. You can download a free STM chart from the Home Page.

● The Triple Strand approach to NFP. We founded the Couple to Couple League in 1971 with a unique approach to Natural Family Planning instruction. It was a combination of Ecological Breastfeeding as a form of NFP, the simple and easy-to-grasp covenant theology of sexuality, and a version of Systematic NFP that emphasized the Sympto-Thermal Method but let couples know about other approaches. Within the STM we developed different rules for distinctly different situations. In our opinion, it is unfortunate that the current management of CCL has changed the content of the Triple Strand while continuing to use the label. NFPI continues the original Triple Strand tradition.

● The website section carries articles and research related to NFP and the culture. More work remains to be done, and it is a continuing project.

Support for Catholic teaching about love, marriage and sexuality is provided in a series of articles dating back to John’s 1971 article in the liberal journal, Theological Studies. “Continued Dissent: Is It Responsible Loyalty?” showed that the decision-making principles of arch-dissenter Fr. Charles Curran could not say a firm NO even to spouse-swapping. It brought exactly zero response from the dissenters, a clear signal that the article was right on the mark. Students doing research on the so-called birth control debate should read it. The talk John gave on Saturday, October 27, was well received at the 2007 annual meeting of the Society of Catholic Social Scientists. Titled, “The Sexual Revolution: A Half-Millennium of Regression,” it will soon be posted on our website. Every high-school and college student should read it.

The blogs provide commentary on current events or topics. They are time-consuming to write but apparently are helpful. Site visits have increased considerably since we started them. We greatly appreciate you and our other readers.

Support for Eastern Europe. This is a very important part of the NFP International apostolate. We fund the salary of a full-time family man working for NFP in Slovakia, and we are very pleased with his work. How many people in the entire world are visiting priests and trying to visit bishops to gently prod them to do what they should be doing to teach marital chastity? We assure you that what he is doing could not be done just with volunteers. With sufficient resources, we hope to duplicate this effort all throughout Europe as well as in the United States.

New classroom teaching program. Some NFP teachers who have enthusiastically taught the traditional Triple Strand content have become disappointed with the changes at CCL, and they’ve asked us to develop a new classroom teaching program based on the content of our online manual. We’re hoping to have this ready early in 2008.

Please pray for the work of NFPI. Yes, we know that you get so many requests for prayers that you can’t remember all of them without making an ever lengthening list. Still, we ask because our mutual prayers are part of God’s Providence for making good things happen. Please pray that thousands of people will visit our website and make good use of the materials there. Please pray that we will develop a truly excellent classroom teaching program that will be used all throughout the United States as well as internationally.

Please pray about helping us financially. Please consider the importance of this NFP apostolate. First, we promote and teach the truth about human sexuality. Is that important? If you read the crime reports in your daily paper, you may notice that most of the crimes of child abuse, domestic violence, and the crimes of young people have a common theme—family breakdown. If there’s a man in the house, he’s not the real father of the child who is in the papers. Marital chastity increasingly isn’t recognized as an ideal or a norm. This is part of the sexual revolution that started with the acceptance of the idea that modern man can take apart what God has put together—marriage-wise and sex-wise.

We are doing what we can on a shoestring. With your help we can do much, much more. Have you or any of your loved ones ever been helped by our work either recently through NFPI or in the past through our previous organization? Do you have any confidence in us based on our record over the past 36 years? Are you ready to give back? We are volunteers, and the couples helping us with the new program are volunteers. But we do need funds for Slovakia, for the website, for promotion, for a printed manual, and for incidental expenses. As founders, we are limited by the IRS as to how much we can give. Please give it prayerful thought.

Please help us financially. After your prayerful thought, we hope that you will want to see the efforts of NFP International continue and increase. We hope you will want to give all that you can. $1,000. $500 $250 $100 $50 $25 $10. NFP International is a registered not-for-profit organization, and all donations to NFPI are tax-deductible. If you want to make regular automatic gifts, we will provide the bank information.

Double your money. A major donor has offered to match all donations in November and December up to a total of $15,000. Please join this effort to help NFP International.

Help spread the word about breastfeeding. We would like to give our donors up to 45 of our new breastfeeding brochure for all donations of $50.00 or more. These brochures are great for promoting breastfeeding in your church and community. Let us know how many you can use—5, 10, 20, 30 or up to 45. You can view and download the brochure at our website, www.nfpandmore.org.

How to donate. Please make checks payable to NFP International or just NFPI and mail them to:
                        NFP International
                        P. O. Box 11216
                        Cincinnati, OH 45211

Be sure to let us know how many brochures you can use and give us your mailing address. (Only the white mother-baby image is printed at this time.)

May God continue to bless you and your family, and may He bless you in a special way for your help to bring about a rebirth of chastity, a stop to contraception and abortion, and a culture of life.

Sincerely in the Lord,

John and Sheila Kippley
Founders, NFP International Inc.

P.S. Please share this blog with family and friends and clergy. Many thanks!

Giving Back: An Appeal from the Kippleys

Sunday, November 4th, 2007

Last year at this time, John was in California undergoing treatment for prostate cancer at the Loma Linda University Medical Center. This place has been the leader in a form of radiation called the proton beam therapy. As you may know, almost all the various treatments have very high success rates in curing prostate cancer, but most of them also have some undesirable side effects such as urinary incontinence and sexual impotence to one degree or another. Proton beam therapy has almost none of the first and a relatively small amount of the latter. Since almost everyone of those being treated was spared the inconvenience of wearing diapers, they were grateful. It was common to hear the guys talking about doing something by way of giving back to the institution that helped them.

NFP International needs that sort of “giving back” spirit among those who have been helped by our work over the past 36 years. We, John and Sheila Kippley, are not asking for any financial support for ourselves. We live adequately on Social Security for the most part, and we are happy to be 100% volunteers for NFPI. We just hope that people who have been helped by us in past years or recently will want to give back to NFPI in order to maintain and significantly expand our current level of service. And just what sort of service does NFPI render?

The website. We opened the NFPI website, www.nfpandmore.org, in 2005 with the intention of making it the “go to” website for Natural Family Planning. We have made significant strides toward that goal but we certainly have much more to do.

Our online manual, Natural Family Planning: The Question-Answer Book, is for self-instruction. It is short, easy reading and free. Most NFP websites promote their NFP course. There’s nothing wrong with that, but many couples can learn very well from our manual. It is far more complete than the material from which we first learned the STM, and users can and do contact us for additional free help via email and phone. You can download a free STM chart from the Home Page.

● The Triple Strand approach to NFP. We founded the Couple to Couple League in 1971 with a unique approach to Natural Family Planning instruction. It was a combination of Ecological Breastfeeding as a form of NFP, the simple and easy-to-grasp covenant theology of sexuality, and a version of Systematic NFP that emphasized the Sympto-Thermal Method but let couples know about other approaches. Within the STM we developed different rules for distinctly different situations. In our opinion, it is unfortunate that the current management of CCL has changed the content of the Triple Strand while continuing to use the label. NFPI continues the original Triple Strand tradition.

● The website section carries articles and research related to NFP and the culture. More work remains to be done, and it is a continuing project.

Support for Catholic teaching about love, marriage and sexuality is provided in a series of articles dating back to John’s 1971 article in the liberal journal, Theological Studies. “Continued Dissent: Is It Responsible Loyalty?” showed that the decision-making principles of arch-dissenter Fr. Charles Curran could not say a firm NO even to spouse-swapping. It brought exactly zero response from the dissenters, a clear signal that the article was right on the mark. Students doing research on the so-called birth control debate should read it. The talk John gave on Saturday, October 27, was well received at the 2007 annual meeting of the Society of Catholic Social Scientists. Titled, “The Sexual Revolution: A Half-Millennium of Regression,” it will soon be posted on our website. Every high-school and college student should read it.

The blogs provide commentary on current events or topics. They are time-consuming to write but apparently are helpful. Site visits have increased considerably since we started them. We greatly appreciate you and our other readers.

Support for Eastern Europe. This is a very important part of the NFP International apostolate. We fund the salary of a full-time family man working for NFP in Slovakia, and we are very pleased with his work. How many people in the entire world are visiting priests and trying to visit bishops to gently prod them to do what they should be doing to teach marital chastity? We assure you that what he is doing could not be done just with volunteers. With sufficient resources, we hope to duplicate this effort all throughout Europe as well as in the United States.

New classroom teaching program. Some NFP teachers who have enthusiastically taught the traditional Triple Strand content have become disappointed with the changes at CCL, and they’ve asked us to develop a new classroom teaching program based on the content of our online manual. We’re hoping to have this ready early in 2008.

Please pray for the work of NFPI. Yes, we know that you get so many requests for prayers that you can’t remember all of them without making an ever lengthening list. Still, we ask because our mutual prayers are part of God’s Providence for making good things happen. Please pray that thousands of people will visit our website and make good use of the materials there. Please pray that we will develop a truly excellent classroom teaching program that will be used all throughout the United States as well as internationally.

Please pray about helping us financially. Please consider the importance of this NFP apostolate. First, we promote and teach the truth about human sexuality. Is that important? If you read the crime reports in your daily paper, you may notice that most of the crimes of child abuse, domestic violence, and the crimes of young people have a common theme—family breakdown. If there’s a man in the house, he’s not the real father of the child who is in the papers. Marital chastity increasingly isn’t recognized as an ideal or a norm. This is part of the sexual revolution that started with the acceptance of the idea that modern man can take apart what God has put together—marriage-wise and sex-wise.

We are doing what we can on a shoestring. With your help we can do much, much more. Have you or any of your loved ones ever been helped by our work either recently through NFPI or in the past through our previous organization? Do you have any confidence in us based on our record over the past 36 years? Are you ready to give back? We are volunteers, and the couples helping us with the new program are volunteers. But we do need funds for Slovakia, for the website, for promotion, for a printed manual, and for incidental expenses. As founders, we are limited by the IRS as to how much we can give. Please give it prayerful thought.

Please help us financially. After your prayerful thought, we hope that you will want to see the efforts of NFP International continue and increase. We hope you will want to give all that you can. $1,000. $500 $250 $100 $50 $25 $10. NFP International is a registered not-for-profit organization, and all donations to NFPI are tax-deductible. If you want to make regular automatic gifts, we will provide the bank information.

Double your money. A major donor has offered to match all donations in November and December up to a total of $15,000. Please join this effort to help NFP International.

Help spread the word about breastfeeding. We would like to give our donors up to 45 of our new breastfeeding brochure for all donations of $50.00 or more. These brochures are great for promoting breastfeeding in your church and community. Let us know how many you can use—5, 10, 20, 30 or up to 45. You can view and download the brochure at our website, www.nfpandmore.org.

How to donate. Please make checks payable to NFP International or just NFPI and mail them to:
                        NFP International
                        P. O. Box 11216
                        Cincinnati, OH 45211

Be sure to let us know how many brochures you can use and give us your mailing address. (Only the white mother-baby image is printed at this time.)

May God continue to bless you and your family, and may He bless you in a special way for your help to bring about a rebirth of chastity, a stop to contraception and abortion, and a culture of life.

Sincerely in the Lord,

John and Sheila Kippley
Founders, NFP International Inc.

P.S. Please share this blog with family and friends and clergy. Many thanks!