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This is the fifth installment of my commentary on The Human Body: a sign of dignity and a gift by Fr. Richard M. Hogan. For publication details, see the blog for September 9, 2007.

In his booklet, The Human Body, Fr. Richard Hogan attempts to explain why sexual sins are sinful. That’s an important effort, and he gets off to a good start by noting that “It is obvious to most of us that our sexual desires often ‘get in the way’ of a genuine other-directed love. When we ‘give in’ to our desires and act on them, we act selfishly. We act contrary to love. We fail to love ourselves and others. In effect, we sin.”

So far, very good. He then continues. “In acting against ourselves, we violate our own dignity and value because we use ourselves.” Here he makes no distinction between the good use and the bad use of ourselves and others; in his lexicon the word “use” always seems to have a negative meaning. Next he drags in his customary references to theology. “We act in opposition to the wonderful vision of the Church taught in the theology of the body. . . We act in opposition to the marvelous vision of the Church taught in the theology of the family.” I’m sorry, but I simply cannot imagine myself or anyone else having any good effect on a group of young people by saying that sexual sins are wrong because they are in opposition to the marvelous visions of the Church taught in those theologies. Talking about the theology of this and the theology of that simply puts a cloud of smoke between the teacher and the student.

Father Hogan then treats briefly of a number of sins against life and sexuality. Lust in general, pornography, intimate touching, masturbation, extramarital sexual activity, divorce and remarriage, contraception and sterilization, artificial reproductive techniques, abortion, and homosexual activity are treated in that order. He describes each one as contrary to human dignity. In fact, in each treatment he notes that “[the sinful activity] violates both human dignity and the wondrous vocation of love given to all of us as images of God.”

I agree. On the other hand I do not think that this is an effective way to teach the evil of these actions in our contemporary culture because the application of the concept of human dignity to any particular behavior is highly subjective. For example, back in the Sixties, the leaders of the so-called majority report of the papal birth control commission apparently thought that contraceptive behaviors did not violate human dignity. A bit of background is necessary here. The so-called minority report had criticized the majority’s acceptance of contraceptive behaviors as logically accepting oral and anal copulation, masturbation, and direct sterilization. The majority writers responded that their theory did not accept anal and oral copulation because “in these acts there is preserved neither the dignity of love nor the dignity of the spouse as human persons created according to the image of God.” It is important to note that they offered no such reply to the accusations regarding masturbation and direct sterilization. Most important, they offered no such reply regarding common contraceptive practices. In short, those who wrote that oral and anal copulations are contrary to human dignity must have thought that common contraceptive behaviors were within the bounds of human dignity. That’s what I mean by saying that the application of the dignity principle is highly subjective. You can read more on the birth control reports in my book, Sex and the Marriage Covenant, p. 307.

Another example of subjectivity in applying the principle of human dignity is the organization name selected by those who advocate the acceptance of homosexual sodomy and still call themselves Catholic. They use the name “Dignity.” It seems that they think that oral and anal sodomy is within the bounds of human dignity.

As mentioned in a previous blog, Father Hogan has publicly criticized the covenant theology of human sexuality as deductive, objective, and principled. What he finds objectionable about it is precisely what I think is advantageous. The covenant theology of sexuality states that sexual intercourse is intended by God to be exclusively a marriage act. The marriage act then becomes an objective standard by which other behaviors are measured. This standard is derived from the many biblical texts about sexuality. Every form of sexual behavior is condemned except honest covenantal sex. That is, all that is left is the marriage act. You will find a review of the biblical teachings on sex in Chapter 17, “Biblical Foundations” of my book, Sex and the Marriage Covenant.

Using the marriage act as the objective standard, we can then logically explain why adultery, fornication, sodomy and other sexual sins are sinful: they are not marriage acts. The standard also applies to marital contraception. The marriage act ought to reflect and renew the marriage covenant, for better and for worse. The whole purpose of marital contraception, however, is to say “We take each other for better but not for the imagined worse of possible pregnancy.” Regardless of any words they may say, their body language clearly says “but NOT for the imagined worse…”, and actions speak much louder than words.

Next week: Natural family planning and the repentant sterilized couple.

John F. Kippley
Sex and the Marriage Covenant: A Basis for Morality (Ignatius, 2005)
Natural Family Planning: The Question-Answer Book, a short, readable, and free e-book available for downloading at www.NFPandmore.org .

This is the fourth installment of my commentary on The Human Body: a sign of dignity and a gift by Fr. Richard M. Hogan. For publication details, see the blog for September 9, 2007.

What is responsible parenthood? Is the use of NFP to avoid pregnancy automatically virtuous behavior? Is it possible to use NFP in a wrongful manner? Do couples need serious reasons or any reasons at all for practicing NFP to avoid pregnancy? What does the Catholic Church really teach about the virtuous use of natural family planning to avoid or postpone pregnancy? These questions are important to conscientious Catholic couples. What does Fr. Richard Hogan have to say about this issue?

What is responsible parenthood? In his booklet The Human Body, Fr. Hogan writes: “Responsible parenthood signifies the virtuous choice made by a married couple either to strive to procreate or to try to postpone conception.” I completely agree, but the key phrase here is “virtuous choice.”

Is the use of systematic NFP to avoid pregnancy automatically virtuous behavior? I suppose we can say that it is automatically virtuous in the sense that it is not the sin of contraception or abortion, but that’s not all that conscientious Catholics want to know. The interesting question is “What does the Catholic Church teach about the virtuous use of NFP?” Is it virtuous to use NFP for any reason whatsoever or does it become virtuous behavior only when the couple have sufficiently serious reasons to avoid pregnancy? Is fitting in with the cultural expectation of only two children a sufficient reason to avoid further pregnancies?

The question is addressed by the “birth control” encyclical of Pope Paul VI, Humanae Vitae. I will use Janet Smith’s translation because she gives the Latin words used in the official document.

If we look further to physical, economic, psychological, and social conditions, responsible parenthood is exercised by those who, guided by prudent consideration and generosity, elect to accept many children. Those are also to be considered responsible who, for serious reasons [seriis causis] and due respect for moral precepts, decide not to have another child for either a definite or an indefinite amount of time.

That was from Section 10. Section 16 amplifies this and uses four different terms: serious reasons [iustae causae], good and serious reasons [argumenta…honesta et gravia], defensible reasons [probabiles rationes], and good reasons [iustae rationes].

The original translation published in the United States used “grave reasons” instead of “serious reasons” in section 10, and that has caused debate. “Grave” carries the connotations of something much more serious than simply “serious.” In English “grave” can sound as if it means having one foot in the grave, and it was not a good translation. The phrases in section 16 definitely qualify the meaning of “serious reasons” in section 10. Still, there is, in my opinion, no reasonable way to escape the fact that the virtuous reasons for using NFP to avoid pregnancy cannot be trivial; they must be good and defensible before God, serious in a reasonable sense of the term. For years I have used the phrase “sufficiently serious reasons” to convey the combined meaning of those two sections of Humanae Vitae, and I still think it is a fair and workable definition.

Father Hogan, on the other hand, does not like “serious reasons” terminology. He writes that “In the past the magisterium has taught that couples…should have ‘serious reasons’ ” to use NFP for avoiding pregnancy. He argues that Pope John Paul II’s omission of that phrase in Familiaris Consortio takes us somehow beyond that terminology. “If the language of ‘serious reasons’ has almost disappeared, it is because John Paul knew that these will exist as a matter of course if families respond to his challenge to learn the theology of the body, NFP, and the theology of the family.”

During an EWTN show that featured Fr. Hogan and other CCL representatives (September 13, 2006), a caller used the term “grave reason.” Fr. Hogan replied that he “had a campaign against that language.” Later he described what he thought would be sufficient reasons. The following is a substantially accurate transcription from the recording. He said that if the couple were leading a reasonable good life, holding down jobs, taking care of their children, taking care of each other, taking care of extended family, contributing to society, giving to the Church, receiving the sacraments, then if such a couple decides to seek or postpone pregnancy, they have a sufficient reason.

In my opinion, that description is grossly insufficient. It says nothing about Christian generosity and prudence. It could well describe the culturally “ideal” couple who intend to have no more than two children, are enjoying two very good incomes, and who differ from secular humanists in their pursuit of the comfortable life only by weekly Mass attendance. I dare to say that that is not what any of the Popes have had in mind.

The bottom-line question is this: What should couples who attend NFP courses hear on this subject? Should they hear an exhortation to study the theology of the body, and if so, how many of the 129 lectures and how many explanatory books should they read? Should they be exhorted to study the theology of the family, and if so, from what sources?

Or should they hear a clear and brief explanation that NFP is not “Catholic birth control,” that they are called to generosity, and that they need “sufficiently serious reasons” to use systematic NFP to avoid or postpone pregnancy? Should they learn that having children is the ordinary Christian call until or unless they have very good reasons to think that God is no longer calling them to have another child or at least not right now?

I am disappointed that I do not get any sense of the latter paragraph from Father Hogan’s booklet or his televised comments.

Next week: How should we explain the sinfulness of sexual sins?
John F. Kippley
Sex and the Marriage Covenant: A Basis for Morality (Ignatius)
Natural Family Planning: The Question-Answer Book, a short, readable, and free e-book available for downloading at www.NFPandmore.org .