Archive for 2011

NFP and the Church

Sunday, February 13th, 2011

A friend shares his thoughts to John concerning the Church and NFP.

John,
Thanks for sharing.  I pray to God, our Lord and Savior that the truth you expound will reach the hearts of many so you will receive the support you need!

I believe NFP is truly one of the Church’s answers to so many of the ills of our society today (pornography, contraception, divorce, homosexuality, abortion.).  I believe these ills are due to the local churches lack of teaching in the area of sex.  The ultimate result (or outcome) of the teaching of the Theology of the Body by Pope John Paul the Great is NFP used in marriage; but most people ignore these issues of our society and so does the Church.  The Catholics in the pew don’t know about NFP and could care less because frankly, they want to control their lives and they don’t:  1) trust God enough, 2) take the vows of Marriage seriously, 3) know or care what the Church teaches especially on birth control.   Of course, you know why – it takes sacrifice to live a chaste life, to have kids, and not many people are willing to sacrifice themselves for the truth like you are.    What a mess!!!

I praise God for you and Sheila!  Sexual issues have made our society the culture of death because the devil has helped us enslave ourselves to these sins.  I am just agreeing with your cause …so no sense in going on and on.  Sexual sins and the results of sexual sin is everywhere …the mindset of our new world.  It is affecting everything!  We can’t even get a bus load of folks to go to Washington DC this year for the prolife cause!  …who wants to sacrifice?

God bless you and keep the faith.  We will be having our pastor over for supper soon and when we do, I will speak to him about having NFP classes as a requirement of Marriage prep at our parish  ..we will see!  I think I know the answer here again, but I will ask / promote /and encourage him to do so.

Keep trying!
YBIJ

YOUTUBE:  I read an article on animation recently in the Wall Street Journal.  As a result I went to one of the animation sites to promote NFPI and here is the result. Sheila

Breastfeeding and Short Luteal Phases

Sunday, February 6th, 2011

“To God be the Glory”—Greg Jennings after his Packers team won the Super Bowl.

Occasionally a breastfeeding mother wonders if it is morally right to continue breastfeeding if there is a potential risk to the embryo not being able to implant properly or be sustained by the uterine lining.  The mother wonders if she should quit breastfeeding and wants a Catholic answer to her concerns.

These same questions have been discussed and answered over the years with regard to breastfeeding and the effect of breastfeeding at the time of conception if the luteal phase is short.  The mother wonders if she will have a healthy pregnancy or will she be responsible for a possible miscarriage.

First, a mother does not know ahead of time whether she will have a short luteal phase in the upcoming menstrual cycle.  Here God is in charge.  Years ago we brought this concern to the renowned moral theologian, Msgr. William Smith.  He said there is nothing immoral with having sexual relations during the fertile time for a breastfeeding mother whose cycles have returned and has experienced short luteal phases.

In addition, recent research has shown that implantation can occur as early as 4 or 5 days after ovulation.  Most short luteal phases are 4 to 5 days in length or longer.  As a mother, you can continue to breastfeed and do what’s best for your child.  Eventually fertility returns and pregnancy usually follows for the breastfeeding mother.  This is God’s timing.

I have had 3 miscarriages.  This concern surfaced immediately with the first miscarriage.  I was only nursing infrequently at that time, but we were concerned that the breastfeeding caused the miscarriage.  We checked many sources immediately after that first miscarriage and learned that my nursing had no effect upon my miscarriage.  We checked again years later with a good Catholic doctor and received the same response.

Short luteal phases can occur at anytime, even for a non-breastfeeding mother.  When a mother is breastfeeding, the breastfeeding may reduce her chances of becoming pregnant.  One couple we know desired another baby but the wife was nursing a toddler.  They tried to lengthen their luteal phase in order to achieve a pregnancy.  It was over a year of such cycles before a pregnancy was achieved.  Again, we are not in charge.  With regard to short luteal phases, we do not know ahead of time what the length of the luteal phase will be.  Likewise such cycles can occur at anytime.  As noted above, a good moral theologian such as Monsignor William Smith says that there is no moral requirement to quit breastfeeding for this reason.

Mothers, remember that the longer you breastfeed, the better the health outcomes are for both you and your baby.  We encourage you to come to our website and read the blogs for World Breastfeeding Week for 2007, 2008, and 2009.  The blogs are at the upper right corner of www.NFPandmore.org.  Those blogs will offer you the encouragement you need to keep breastfeeding.  On the home page you can download our online NFP manual.  A donation is requested if you can afford it.  On pages 103 and 104 of this manual you can read many of the benefits associated with breastfeeding.  It’s amazing how long the benefits last for both mother and child–– even years after the breastfeeding has ceased.  God is good.  He has a plan for mother and baby, and it is good.

Sheila Kippley
www.NFPandmore.org

Formula and Crib Recalls

Sunday, January 30th, 2011

Frequently I receive notices of crib and formula recalls.  Coming this June the U. S. will outlaw the drop-side baby crib.  At keepingbabiessafe.org, we learn that “Cribs continue to be the leading cause of death and injury among all nursery products.”  Yet here in the United States parents are usually told to place their baby in a crib and never to sleep with their baby.

A breastfeeding mother can be taught how to sleep safely with her baby.  Any interested parents can go to  NFPI “links” and scroll down for this information.  In my book, The Seven Standards of Ecological Breastfeeding, 21 benefits are given as to why co-sharing sleep with your baby is a good idea.

This past September (2010) five million containers of Similac-brand powder infant formula sold in the United States, Puerto Rico, Guam and some Caribbean countries were recalled because the formula containers  may have been contaminated with insect parts.  As one friend noted, “human milk has never had insect parts.”  This gives parents one more reason to consider other infant sleep options and to seriously consider breastfeeding.  For more information on bedsharing, see RISCS website.

Sheila Kippley
The Seven Standards of Ecological Breastfeeding