Archive for 2011

NFP: Most Difficult Apostolate in the Church

Sunday, January 23rd, 2011

Church Teaching on NFP
What is the most difficult apostolate in the Catholic Church?  The effort to teach chaste natural family planning is the most difficult apostolate in the Church because it defends and supports the teaching affirmed by Humanae Vitae, and no other moral teaching has been so widely attacked and/or ignored right within the Church by both clergy and laity.

This rejection has had disastrous results.  The 2010 version of the periodic NIH Family Growth Survey indicates that only one-tenth of one percent of the survey responders use some form of NFP.  Among Catholic responders, the overall figure was two-tenths of one percent, and among regular church-going Catholics the percentage was still only four-tenths of one percent.  There is a problem with these numbers because they do not include women who are pregnant, breastfeeding, or just letting the babies come as they may, but even after making all sorts of allowances for errors, there is no reason to think that over five percent of Western fertile-age couples are living according to the teaching of the Church.  Considering the ubiquity of International Planned Parenthood, the figures are probably not much better in less developed countries.

The effort of the NFP International apostolate is even more difficult because this apostolate also promotes ecological breastfeeding.

Third, the NFPI apostolate sometimes meets additional difficulties because we teach marital chastity.  That is, we know that some or many married couples will be tempted to engage in masturbation or marital sodomy during the fertile time, so we pass on the traditional Christian teaching against these sinful behaviors.  This is certainly not our favorite subject, but in today’s culture, these things need to be said.  Fortunately, it takes us only about a minute or less to say what has to be said.

If you want the double satisfaction of working to meet a challenge and then knowing that you have helped some other couples in this extremely important area of life, consider teaching NFP with us.

If interested in teaching for NFPI, please read our teaching manual on the home page, Natural Family Planning: The Complete Approach.  After completing the reading, we hope you are even more excited about teaching with us and will get in touch with us.  You can contact us by email at our website.

John and Sheila Kippley

Appreciation of Ecological Breastfeeding

Sunday, January 16th, 2011

John and I continue to believe that eco-breastfeeding should be taught as an option to every engaged and married couple.  One mother wrote us recently showing her appreciation for having been taught eco-breastfeeding.

“Continue your good work and don’t grow weary.  Our prayers are coming your way.  Please don’t ever forget what good scientific information you have given to the masses.  The “work” that you and your husband have given people is not [just] a helpful aid to fertility monitoring, but instead, it is a way of living, a way of embracing marriage selflessly, a way of nurturing our children, and a way of growing a family in the love of Christ.  As I breastfeed my fourth child, I thank you for helping me to be the mother I am proud to be.  I will never regret mothering using ecological breastfeeding.  It is so funny to even give “it” (ecological breastfeeding) a name because it just seems so natural to do—like I was always meant to mother this way. Praise be to the Kippleys for using the talents God has given them to nourish the Body of Christ.”

Sheila Kippley
The Seven Standards of Ecological Breastfeeding: The Frequency Factor
Breastfeeding and Catholic Motherhood

Mother Teresa and Natural Family Planning

Sunday, January 9th, 2011

One time during a conference John and Fr. John Hardon were discussing natural family planning.  John wondered what kind of natural family planning Mother Teresa taught to the poor.  Fr. Hardon said, “Let’s call her up.”  Father called Mother Teresa immediately and John had the privilege of talking to her over the phone.  She said some of her nuns teach temperature-only and some nuns teach mucus-only.

In her lecture when she accepted the Nobel Peace Prize in 1979, she said this about natural family planning where only the temperature sign was mentioned:
“We are doing another thing which is very beautiful—we are teaching our beggars, our leprosy patients, our slum dwellers, our people of the street, natural family planning.  And in Calcutta alone in six years—it is all in Calcutta—we have had 61,273 babies less from the families who would have had, but because they practice this natural way of abstaining, of self-control, out of love for each other. We teach them the temperature meter which is very beautiful, very simple, and our poor people understand.”

And again in this talk, Mother says:  “The poor people are very great people. They can teach us so many beautiful things. The other day one of them came to thank and said: You people who have vowed chastity—you are the best people to teach us family planning. Because it is nothing more than self-control out of love for each other.”

Sheila Kippley
Natural Family Planning: The Complete Approach