Archive for 2013

The Seven Standards of Ecological Breastfeeding

Sunday, July 14th, 2013

The Seven Standards of Ecological Breastfeeding: The Frequency Factor
A book review by Bethany Lynn, May 10, 2013.

What a great book! Maybe it is because  I have a natural interest in the subject, but I found this book to be a quick, easy read that kept me engaged and fascinated. My first to read on this issue, not exclusive breastfeeding but ecological breastfeeding (and there is a difference!), and I found it to be very balanced on the use of scientific evidence and research and practical encouragement from mothers.

The Seven Standards of Ecological Breastfeeding: The Frequency Factor by Sheila Kippley covers “What every woman needs to know about breastfeeding and spacing babies.” There seems to be two extremes when it comes to breastfeeding and natural child spacing, either, “Breastfeeding doesn’t space babies and is not an effective means of birth control,” or the exact opposite, “you can’t get pregnant while breastfeeding.” This book dispels both of those myths and explains the hows of exclusive, ecological breastfeeding, God’s way of natural spacing children for optimal health of mothers and children.

Chapters include the Seven Standards: breastfeed exclusively for six months, pacify your baby at your breasts, don’t use bottles or pacifiers, sleep with your baby for night feedings, sleep with your baby for a daily-nap feeding, nurse frequently day and night and avoid schedules, avoid any practice that restricts nursing or separates you from your baby, plus chapters on natural weaning and the return of fertility, natural child spacing and systematic natural family planning and support. Sheila cites studies in her book stating the dependability of this form of birth control compared to other forms, the health benefits of ecological breastfeeding for all involved and then the necessity of holding to all seven standards and what to do when fertility returns and families wish to delay pregnancy.

What I really love about this book is that Sheila doesn’t push her views on the reader. She clearly states the benefits of extended, ecological breastfeeding as God’s way for families, and I do believe readers would be convinced of this wonderful method after reading it. Being so natural, I feel this is what mothers are looking for and this book gives this “permission” in their heads to do what their hearts are telling them. Sheila is very supportive of large families and states that she is not promoting small families but simply that God’s ways are best.

Quotes from mothers of all faiths are at the beginning of [and] end of every chapter and many resources for further information and support are included. As another reviewer has said, “Every married couple, doctor, nurse, midwife, childbirth educator, and clergyman needs this book in their library,” and I couldn’t agree more.

The Seven Standards is written as a complimentary guide to Breastfeeding and Natural Child Spacing, although I found The Seven Standards to be a wonderful, stand-alone book that can be read in an afternoon. Many people may find The Seven Standards to be plenty of information.

Sex and the Marriage Covenant

Sunday, July 7th, 2013

Sex and the Marriage Covenant by Dr. Pravin Thevathasan of the UK

The thesis of this wonderful book is that God intends the sexual act to be an implicit renewal of the marriage covenant.  Marriage takes place when a couple enter God’s covenant of marriage.  And so, the marriage covenant will always determine the morality of every sexual act.

Why is this book so important?  Because even orthodox Catholics are uncertain why the Church teaches what She does with regard to human sexuality in general and contraception in particular. As with John Paul II, Kippley gives us biblical and personalist reasons why the Church teaches what She does.

Kippley shows us that the teaching of “Humanae Vitae” is both biblical and personalist and he demonstrates that, with “Humanae Vitae“, there is something deeper going on than dissent from Church teaching: the truth and meaning of human sexuality is itself now questioned.

Kippley proposes a coherent argument in favour of a covenant theology of marriage and human sexuality. For the act of sexual intercourse to be good, the man and woman must enter the marriage covenant together, their sexual act ought to express the covenant and there must be an implicit renewal of the covenant by means of the marriage act.  This is different from saying that the couple must intend procreation every time.  Rather, both the unitive and procreative goods of the marriage act ought always to be respected.

As with John Paul II, Kippley argues that any form of sexual exploitation in marriage is always wrong. Fornication and adultery are to be condemned because there is no valid marriage covenant to renew. Contraception means sex with reservation and it therefore contradicts the covenant to love without reservation.

The chapter on conscience, a much misunderstood concept, is invaluable as is the superb chapter on hard cases.

In many ways, this work complements the teaching of John Paul.  It is an excellent resource on marriage and human sexuality and it is entirely loyal to the teaching of the Church.
Sex and the Marriage Covenant reviewed by Dr. Pravin Thevathasan, Catholic Medical Quarterly, UK.

13. Breastfeeding and Natural Family Planning

Sunday, June 30th, 2013

 Does breastfeeding space babies?  You bet it does.  Here is what mothers are saying!

“I am a great fan of your work on ecological breastfeeding.  My daughter is 13 months old.  Although my period returned at 7 months, my fertility has not yet returned.”

“This is the only method of child spacing that appeals to my husband and me in every possible way.  Myself, I look for simpler answers—ones that women in non-technological societies might discover—and in breastfeeding I found it.”

“I am currently nursing my 18 month old without a return of my periods.”

“I thank you for the positive effect you’ve had on my mothering skills.  I nursed my first baby for 4 months and quit because of the inconvenience.  I nursed my second baby for 22 months because it was so very convenient.”

“My son nurses on and off during the nights.  He is 22 months old and I have not had a period yet.”

“Breastfeeding has a very definite effect on child spacing.  With my bottlefed children I conceived again at 8 months after childbirth despite other contraceptives.  It has been 15 months since the last baby was born.  No period yet.”

“My children are spaced three years apart due to ecological breastfeeding.”

And a Jewish mother says:  “I wanted to proudly share my news that I just had my longest amenorrhea period ever- 18 1/2 months!!
I’ve been having increasingly longer periods of time:
6 1/2 months after my first
9 1/2 months after my second
14 1/2 months after my third and fourth
18 1/2 months after my fifth (my most recent baby)
I am so thrilled with G-d’s amazing natural form of child spacing that benefits everyone in the most wonderful of ways.”

I encourage everyone to do what they can to promote this natural way of spacing babies.
Sheila Kippley
Breastfeeding and Catholic Motherhood
The Seven Standards of Ecological Breastfeeding